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Cold Hard Ground

Posted by Dion Todd March 14th, 2025 1,421 Views 34 Comments

Sow to yourselves in righteousness, Reap according to kindness. Break up your fallow ground; For it is time to seek Yahweh, Until He comes and rains righteousness on you. Hosea 10:12 WEB.

I grew up on a farm, and over the long cold winter, the ground of the fields would become so hard that water would just run off of it like a rock. The rain would not penetrate the crust but just run through its cracks. When spring came, we would have to plow it with a tractor and break it all up to get it ready to plant. We would then plant the seed, the rain would come, and later we would get a harvest. Each year we had to do this to see a harvest. Without hard work, there was no reward. Only weeds would grow in the field.

Left alone, our hearts will become as hard as a rock. Life happens. You add a little hurt here, another disappointment there, someone lies to you again, and soon a bigger wall goes up to protect us. We can become cynical and add another layer of protection to our little shells. If the rain does come, it will run off, leaving us dry and bare because our hearts have grown hard and calloused from use and abuse.

I had a rough upbringing. There was a time in my life when I could count everyone I cared about on one hand and still have a couple of fingers left. No one hurt me anymore because they were already an enemy when I met them. Yet, God didn't leave me like that. For even though I had no interest in people, as I tried to grow closer to Jesus, He began to peel those layers off of me like an onion. Slowly He opened me up, and eventually, I could show love and be loved. It was something I had never known before I met Him. He loved me too much to leave me like I was.

In ancient Palestine, farming was a bit different than today. They scattered the seed first, then plowed it into the ground. Think of the parable that Jesus told of the sower in Matthew 13:3. You hear the word of God, then we plow it into our ground by doing it. He will then take care of everything else and provide the rain, the nutrients, and the sunshine to make it grow. Working together with Him, we bring forth a harvest.

God can heal a hardened heart if you let Him, but we often hold Him at a distance. We don't really trust Him. Yet, we have to work with Him to advance. He gives us a word, and we break up the ground by doing what He told us, then He provides the rain. We study, He reveals something new, we then try and live it, and there is a reward. The rain that comes from being in the Lord's presence and His word will soften our hearts over time, make them grow, and begin to heal.

Seek the Lord and His presence, and don't let your heart become cold and hard. Spend a little time talking to Him each day and cultivate a relationship. There can't be a harvest until the ground is made ready, and many fields have sat unchanged for decades.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, please guide me and reveal the things that I need to change. Show me the next step clearly and give me the grace to do whatever is needed. Please help me break up the pieces of my life that have hardened, and send Your rain. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen!

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Post from Scott Riegelmann

Scott Riegelmann commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen, Thank you Father for doing what needs to be done in my HEART so I can GROW and become more like Jesus and his Holy Spirit In Jesus' name I pray AMEN!!



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Comment from Sherry Mccosh

1 week ago

God is continually working in all of our lifes to change us for the better!!!


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Comment from Liesel aka lisa Wardle

1 week ago

Love, hugs and many prayers, Scott! Be strong in the Lord, He is with you!!! As we look upon our Savior seeing Him hanging and suffering on the cross dying the sinners death, which we all so rightly deserved, I believe we all have to walk the path of suffering and certain trials as we stand fast believing in Him, getting unbelievable strength from Him, what I mean is, that we who believe also have to carry our little crosses!! That is my way of thinking, dear Scott! You are a warrior marching in God's mighty army, I'm so very proud of you and I love you from a distance, dear brother!!! Love, hugs and many prayers, Liesel 🙏🤗❣️


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Comment from Lynn Brown

2 weeks ago

Amen. Praying for you, Scott!🙏❤️


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Comment from Liesel aka lisa Wardle

2 weeks ago

🙏❤️🤗 Isaiah 41:10 - The Lord is with you! 🙏


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2 weeks ago

Amen He is a lLesel THAT
BLiesek ANd Much mUCH MUCH MORE!!!


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Amen He is a lLesel THAT
BLiesek ANd Much mUCH MUCH MORE!!!



Post from Dan Remley

Dan Remley commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Lord, the closer I get to you. The better my life becomes. I have been through terrible times, and you have picked me up. My life right now is as good as it's ever been. It's all because of you. Please keep working in my. I can't get enough of you. Thanks for your friendship ❤️



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Comment from Sylvia Todd

2 weeks ago

God bless, brother 🙏!


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2 weeks ago

TY❤️


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Comment from Lynn Brown

2 weeks ago

Amen. Have a blessed weekend, Dan!


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2 weeks ago

TY❤️


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Comment from Schalk de Beer

2 weeks ago

✝️🛐


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2 weeks ago

TY



Post from Susan Petho

Susan Petho commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen 🙏




Post from Yvette York

Yvette York commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Heavenly Father Please Help Guide Me And reveal The Things I Need To Change In My Life Amen Good Morning Everyone 😀



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Comment from Dan Remley

2 weeks ago

Good morning Yvette ❤️


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Comment from Lynn Brown

2 weeks ago

Good morning!🌞



Post from Matt Wisniewski

Matt Wisniewski commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen thank you , Lord knows I've still alot to change. And help me understand your grace for me because there's things I still can't seem to forgive of my old self ❤️☦️🙏✝️⚔️



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Comment from Dan Remley

2 weeks ago

Hey Matt. We have all made mistakes and were all sinners. We have to move past but learn from our mistakes. As you know God is forgiving and merciful. Please don't let the past steal your joy. Move on and have a wonderful future. ❤️



Post from Sylvia Todd

Sylvia Todd commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Good morning, fam, praying you have a fantastically blessed Friday! 🙏💛🌻



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Comment from Dan Remley

2 weeks ago

Thank you sister. I pray that you and Pastor Dion along with our wonderful RHM family has a great day❤️


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Comment from Kevin J. Eck

2 weeks ago

Thank you Sylvia, You too!


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Comment from Lynn Brown

2 weeks ago

You too, Sylvia & Pastor Dion!🙏🩷



Post from Sherry Mccosh

Sherry Mccosh commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Heavenly Father, please guide me and reveal the things that I need to change. Show me the next step clearly and give me the grace to do whatever is needed. Please help me break up the pieces of my life that have hardened, and send Your rain. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen! I was not getting the emails for more than a week but I just started getting them again today so thank you very much. I love all of these devotions and messages they are good for the soul and always gives me things I need to think about. God bless you Pastor Dion and Sylvia!!!



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Comment from Dan Remley

2 weeks ago

Amen Sherry ❤️


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Comment from Wanda Pennington

2 weeks ago

Amen!🙏


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Comment from Valeri Frank

2 weeks ago

Amen!🙏🏼🕊️



Post from Kim Gordon

Kim Gordon commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


I have read many, many of your devotions and you have mentioned your abusive upbringing several times. I know you know you are not alone. I, too, grew up terribly abused until I spoke out at age 15. I just want to say PRAISE GOD for taking something that was intended for bad and using it for good! As He has with me as well! Thank you for sharing your deep pain, that I’m sure now God has brought you to healing, and using it to reach out to others in pain as well! God bless you!



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Comment from Dan Remley

2 weeks ago

I am glad that the Lord has brought you peace. God is great. ❤️


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Comment from Dion Todd

2 weeks ago

Thank you, Kim! May the Lord continue to restore us both. 😀🙏


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2 weeks ago

I am so glad that the Lord has brought you peace. I am very grateful that He blessed all of us here at RHM,and brought you into our lives Pastor Dion. You're a positive impact on all of us❤️



Post from Valeri Frank

Valeri Frank commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Dear Heavenly Father, please help me to break down these walls I have put up around myself... I've tried to protect myself from the people who hurt me. I just need to remember to always seek You out and to lean on You. You are the Light of the world. Please remind me when I need to turn to You instead of closing myself off from the rest of the world. I want to follow Your Love Light wherever it leads me. You are the reason for life. You are my God. In Jesus Name I Pray... Amen 🙏🏼



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Comment from Dan Remley

2 weeks ago

That's wonderful Valerie. Amen to that ❤️


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Comment from Liesel aka lisa Wardle

2 weeks ago

AMEN ❣️


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Comment from Schalk de Beer

2 weeks ago

✝️🛐


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Comment from Kevin J. Eck

2 weeks ago

Amen Sister!


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Comment from Lynn Brown

2 weeks ago

Amen!🩷



Post from Wesley Paulus

Wesley Paulus commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen!




Post from Mari Kaufmann

Mari Kaufmann commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen




Post from Liesel aka lisa Wardle

2 weeks ago


Amen and Amen!!! Seek the Lord while HE may be found, and yes, maintain, cultivate a true relationship with Him and continue to build upon it, so that it would grow more and more, day by day! - Dear Heavenly Father, please guide me and reveal the things that I need to change! Show me the next step clearly and give me the grace to do whatever is needed! Please help me to brake up the pieces that have hardened, and send your rain! In the Holy name of Jesus Christ I ask and pray, AMEN!




Post from Jackie Tipton

Jackie Tipton commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen ❤️ 🙏




Post from Debi Burton

Debi Burton commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Heavenly Father, please guide me and reveal the things that I need to change. Show me the next step clearly and give me the grace to do whatever is needed. Please help me break up the pieces of my life that have hardened, and send Your rain. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen! ❤️🤟🏻




Post from David Krull

David Krull commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen Lord




Post from Raju Williams

Raju Williams commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen.🙏🙏




Post from Wanda Pennington

Wanda Pennington commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Heavenly Father, please guide me and reveal the things that I need to change. Show me the next step clearly and give me the grace to do whatever is needed. Please help me break up the pieces of my life that have hardened, and send Your rain. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen!

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Post from Kevin J. Eck

Kevin J. Eck commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Heavenly Father, I am not a perfect Man, But with your Grace and Protection. Help me to Live your promises of Unending Love, Your unwavering Presence, Peace and Comfort, Rest and Relief, Promises of Forgiveness , Cleansing, Provision and Strength! I feel I am asking for a lot, but you are a Mighty God! In our Lord's Precious Name, Jesus, Amen.




Post from Lynn Brown

Lynn Brown commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


I pray that I can change the things I need to change. With Your help, I can do all things! Amen. Happy Friday RHM!🌞




Post from Greg Hall

Greg Hall commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Yes Father, Please show me the things that I need to change and give me the grace and guidance to do what is needed to make those changes. Amen!




Post from Theresa Bright

Theresa Bright commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen 🙏🏻 thank you Lord.




Post from Liberty Brock

Liberty Brock commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Thank you Father God! Amen!




Post from Gloria Nebarez

Gloria Nebarez commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Yes Lord loosen up the hard peices of my life in Jesus name I pray, thank you Jesus.




Post from Marisa Jackson

Marisa Jackson commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen🙏❤️❤️🙏!!




Post from Linda Clark

Linda Clark commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen




Post from Schalk de Beer

Schalk de Beer commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Yes my Lord and Father, I pray this in Jesus's mighty name, amen. ✝️🛐



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Comment from Valeri Frank

2 weeks ago

Amen!🙏🏼🕊️



Post from Bella Colliander

Bella Colliander commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Yes, Heavenly Father, give me the grace to do whatever is needed and send Your rain. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen!🙏🕊️Thank you Pastor Dion for lifting my spirit💖



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Comment from Valeri Frank

2 weeks ago

Amen! 🙏🏼🕊️



Post from Dana Rozell

Dana Rozell commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Yes Amen




Post from Brenda F

Brenda F commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen




Post from Elena Vasquez

Elena Vasquez commented on Dion Todd's blog post: Cold Hard Ground

2 weeks ago


Amen





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